I didn't mean to be. It would be nice if it was as simple as "voila!"
But I reckon if you said "mum I'm struggling. I've tried x y z and none of it's working can you help" she would. It sounds like quite a mumsy thing to do. And the sort of thing a mum would do for her daughter and a nan would do for her granddaughter.
I love the fact that you describe your daughter as determined! She will grow up to be amazing x