A few days ago on a hunch I took a hpt and got a bfp.
Not what either my husband and I were looking for, as we already have 3 healthy children, with the youngest being only 4 months.
A huge shock, especially as we were on the pill, and were trying approx a year for each of our 3 children with no birth control.
So.. Here we are...
I am a supporter of a women's right to choose (abortion) in theory, but now I am faced with the right to choose, it is so NOT a simple choice.
I think my husband summed it up, that although it seems logical (based on our circumstances), and going with our heads, it doesn't quite sit right with our hearts.
I went to our GP today to get some information relating to how the abortion would work (in our state), and timings etc, and this has given me some reprieve in the form of a longer than expected time period to decide.
My husband and I sometimes find it hard to talk through stuff logically, so I was hoping to have some sort of list do we can really talk about it.
I would be so grateful if anyone could share any questions / conversations that you think we should be asking about / considering when we hash this out.
Again, I know it's a long shot - but any suggestions would be so welcome.