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    I am scared that once again the anxiety is surfacing and I am heading down the PND path again.
    I am scared that I will never be a good mother for my boys.
    I am scared that we will never be happy, and DH will not get over his stress and depression he constantly has.

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    I'm scared that I will never feel like a mum how everyone else is, where their kids encompass all their waking thoughts and they miss them while they're gone off to work, out with friends, etc.

    I'm scared FOB makes a better parent than I do and secretly I think DD would be better off living with him because of it.

    I'm scared of my financial situation atm and how hard next year is going to be.

    I'm scared of when I have this baby, that I won't have that connection with it either and end up feeling lacking again.

    I'm scared my kids will pick up on it and resent me for it and I won't be able to explain that despite how much I love them, I don't seem to make that emotional connection with anyone and I don't know why.

    I'm scared there will come a time the kids prefer Dad, the fun parent, over me because I'm not fun even though I try to be.

    I'm scared I'm too strict sometimes.

    I'm scared of turning into my mother.

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    I am scared that this morning sickness won't end and that I've f$&ed everything up

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    I am scared that

    My mum is getting older and I will literally be unable to function in this world without her, she is my best friend, my rock, my everything

    My relationship will never improve and my children will suffer for it

    I will one day be diagnosed with a terminal disease and have a complete nervous breakdown (I don't fear death as such, but I fear "knowing" it will happen and not being able to help it- I couldn't handle that).. I think about this happening almost daily, such a waste of headspace worrying about something that a) is beyond my control and b) may never happen, but I can't help it.

    DD is no longer a baby and I won't have anymore

    I am weak
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    @harvs if you're really some horrible person, you're doing a brilliant job at faking it! I am proud to actually KNOW you and I think I'm a pretty good judge of character and, your fears and anxieties regarding your self worth are simply not true. So there, you're amazing because I said so and I know so Don't question me, ok? Your soul is golden and the fact that you don't realise this or are unable to accept that is both endearing and a classic trait that beautiful, selfless people such as yourself possess. So ner!

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    I am definitely scared that I'm deep down not a good person and don't deserve anything that I have.

    I'm happy with my life, I truly am. I have everything I could ever want or need, and my children are my life, so when I say I'm unhappy it's only with myself and who I am. I'm scared I will NEVER like myself, no matter how hard I try. I just will never ever like who I am.


 

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