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    I am scared that I will never be free from the past.

    I'm scared that I'm failing my kids and that they'll resent me and they're older.

    I'm scared that I will always live from pay to pay.

    I'm scared that I may never meet "the one".

    I'm scared that I'll never feel "done".

    I'm scared that I may not be strong enough one day to fight the black dog.

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    I am scared that I will never have anything in life I am good at besides being a mother.

    I am scared I will have to go back to work early and that I wont have a job to go back to

    I am scared that I wont be able to be the best mother I can be when number 2 comes along.

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    I am scared that I won't be able to cope on my own.

    I'm scared that one day I will become a statistic.

    I'm scared that no one will ever love me

    I'm scared that I will never know who I truly am.

    I'm scared that if I find out who I am, that person is a selfish, cruel, arrogant cow.

    I'm scared that one day one of these various chronic illnesses will mean that I can't do anything.

    I'm scared that I will never be who I want to be.

    I'm scared that no one will like me, let alone love me.

    I'm scared that this neediness, this constant need for reassurance and affection will drive anyone crazy enough to like me away.

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    I am scared of always being anxious and unable to cope.
    I think I'm unlikable and unlovable.
    I'm scared of getting old...
    I worry about dying, getting sick and leaving my kids.

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    I'm scared that my health issues mean I won't be around for my 4 year old. That deep down I was better off not being a mother and that my husband has done a better job at parenting. I cant shake the feeling of guilt that I'm working and he doesn't really need me.

    Only thing that fixes my health issues is weight loss surgery. What if I go ahead and do the surgery then put the weight all back on like I already have? What do I do then!

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    I'm scared that...

    My only chance to have a child was when I was forced to get an abortion when I was younger (silly I know)

    We will give up on trying and move OS like planned & I end up pregnant over there with no friends or family for support

    Work will consume me too much of my energy & I have even less time with hubby

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    I'm scared that I will never be able to breathe deeply as I will always have the weight of my ex on me.
    I'm scared I won't be able to protect my children from him and his crazy decisions
    I'm scared my son will never have an anxiety free childhood
    I'm scared my ex's gf will bait some meat, throw it over my fence and poison my dog
    I'm scared I won't maximise my potential
    I'm scared my children will not have the best childhood possible
    I'm scared I will never lose weight and get back into activities I like
    I'm scared I won' get another go at being with an awesome partner
    I'm scared my mum will die and I won't get much more time with her

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    Default I am scared that...

    I'm scared that..

    I won't cope going back to work in January and DD won't cope in childcare.

    Dd isn't thriving as she should and I'm failing her

    That I won't ever get married.

    That things won't get easier.

    That I'll end up with pnd

    That the worry and anxiety won't fade

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    I'm scared that my DD will grow to hate me and we won't have a good relationship

    That DS may have CMPI and reflux just like DD did

    That every day DD will eat something she's allergic to and I won't be able to medicate her in time

    That parenting will never get easier

    That I'll never enjoy being a mum which my kids will pick up on and end up resenting me for

    That I'll never have the career I truly want

    That I'll never have any hobbies or things to make me happy. DH asks what he can do to help me have time to do something I want to do - but I cannot think of one thing outside of just going to sit and enjoy a coffee in peace or seeing a friend that will actually make me happy. So why do I complain that I hate my days with DD and DS if there's no better alternatives

    I'm scared that my mums MS will mean she won't be around much longer

    I'm scared that DH will get sick of me always being down, stressed and anxious and want his old wife back or worse still look for what he's missing out on elsewhere.

    I'm scared that DD has some anxiety issues already, her nail biting causing her fingers to bleed, her fear of loud noises

    Scared that DD will develop diabetes as I can't seem to get her to eat anything other than carbs, fruit, yoghurt and other sweet sugary foods

    Scared that I'll never be able to discipline my kids and they will walk all over me.

    Scared DD will never grow out of her tantrums over everything

    Scared that DD will pick up in the fact I feel a real connection with DS that I never seemed to have with her

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    I am scared that..

    Ill never get over my depression and off meds

    I will be stuck in this unhappy marriage forever

    when my DD moves to another state at the end of 2015 she will need me one day and i wont be there for her due to distance

    My DS will get his heartbroken and lose his son...


 

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