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    Default I am scared that...

    I am scared that...

    I will never repartner

    The recurring pain in my breast is cancer

    I have made a mistake by going back to work full time next year

    I have messed up my son's life through decisions I've made

    I will never be fit again

    I am 35 soon

    I will never be happy again

    I am deep down not a good person, fundamentally selfish and unlikeable, and certainly unworthy of love

    What are you scared of?

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    I'm scared that..

    I'll end up like my mother

    I will resent DH for going overseas in Feb alone while I am here alone

    I will never be truly happy again

    I've had a sudden yearning for another Bub but I've always said one is enough and it might be too late

    I am always going to be weak and let people walk all over me

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    Big hugs lovely xoxo Can I just point out that deep down you're an amazing person and there is no way you have messed your little boy up. He is going to grow into a beautiful person just like his mum

    I am scared that...

    I will never be strong enough to beat pnd.

    I will be overweight for the rest of my life.

    I am holding my kids back because of my anxiety.

    I will never feel like a good mother.

    I will never get my license.

    We will never have the money to get married which is my dream.

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    I am scared that...

    I will never find the path to recover from my CFS

    I will spend many $$ on the above with no result (already many $$ down the drain)

    I will one day break down completely and no longer be able to cope mentally and emotionally with CFS symptoms and continuous illness

    That my kids always think I am sick

    That I will always be a slave to my anxiety

    That something will happen to my DH

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    Quote Originally Posted by harvs View Post
    I am scared that...

    I will never repartner

    The recurring pain in my breast is cancer

    I have made a mistake by going back to work full time next year

    I have messed up my son's life through decisions I've made

    I will never be fit again

    I am 35 soon

    I will never be happy again

    I am deep down not a good person, fundamentally selfish and unlikeable, and certainly unworthy of love

    What are you scared of?
    Oh Harvs I could right half of those!

    I'm scared my DH will turn out to be a real A-hole with a custody struggle.

    I'm scared I've f'd up her life with the decisions I've made (sorry to steal @harvs)

    I'm scared I will never lose all this weight I've put on

    I'm scared the whole break down of my marriage was actually my fault....

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    I am scared that..

    I have failed my kids

    That after the break dh and I are about to have from each other neither of us will want to come back and we will divorce

    That I will never know what I want to do with my life

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    Thank you for sharing your answers. I believe that writing down your fears and acknowledging them is half the battle. Ok, maybe a quarter :-) in summary, it helps...

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    I'm scared that we won't get back on track financially.

    I'm scared that we won't get a new place to live after our eviction and we will have to split our family up so we can go and stay with our families.

    I'm scared that I won't be able to afford to buy my dd and Dsd Christmas presents, it's my daughters first one, I feel like such a failure.

    I realise I'm complaining about money and I feel bad about that, but right now it's all I think about.

    I will do my best though to fix everything so we have a fresh start though!
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    Quote Originally Posted by harvs View Post

    I am deep down not a good person, fundamentally selfish and unlikeable, and certainly unworthy of love

    What are you scared of?
    You don't come across like that here for sure! And I'm sure you're not. But i feel the same about myself so I know there's no point in arguing about it

    AFM I'm scared I'll totally stuff up the uni course I've just enrolled in.

    I'm scared I'll be fat forever.

    I'm scared of what my kids face in the future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katey4 View Post
    I'm scared that we won't get back on track financially.

    I'm scared that we won't get a new place to live after our eviction and we will have to split our family up so we can go and stay with our families.

    I'm scared that I won't be able to afford to buy my dd and Dsd Christmas presents, it's my daughters first one, I feel like such a failure.

    I realise I'm complaining about money and I feel bad about that, but right now it's all I think about.
    Dont feel bad. You can be scared for whatever you like

    Im scared that i will never get a thick skin.

    Im scared that ill never let go of things that are in the past.

    Im scared that i will be a reflection of my own mother and my kids will hate me.

    Im scared of misscarrying while DF is away.


 

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