Thanks Stacey..,I'm hoping you're right.
I had a great conversation with a friend tonight and we were talking about loss and how it's hard to get over it and how maybe you never do but you are just different afterwards and find a new normal. She sent me the following quote that I thought I should share, "the reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will learn to heal and rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same; not should you want to"
For some reason this spoke to me. For those of you who know loss...at 4 weeks, at 8 weeks, or full term...grieve it and know you don't need to "get over" it. You will find a new normal and a new "whole". I'm finding comfort in this tonight.