OK, so to get DH back from working FIFO, crazy me has decided to work full time next year (primary teaching). I've got the job, DH is trying to work out what his new job here will be - so we don't know his hours yet, but with both of us working full time things can NOT be how they have been for the most part.
When we first got together, he was terribly undomesticated, but I was happy to take him as he was for all his good points. Now, nearly 10 years later, with a 7yo and 18mo (who still doesn't sleep through every night!), I can't be so sentimental. He's also spent most of the past 10 years running his own business, hence me putting career on hold and keeping house for us. This is a real role reversal for us and I'm looking forward to being the breadwinner again.
So, bring it on - every tip, trick, manipulation, blackmail, every thing that has worked to change your other half from doing 1% of the home duties to 50%. He's not too bad on the child wrangling, it's cleaning, shopping, organising, etc that will need a LOT of work.