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    Around three years ago my husband pushed and pushed for a argument at Christmas. ....it went on for 5 days the tension and heart ache he finally packed up his stuff and walked out and left me to pick up the pieces ...I lost so much weight from not eating in 3 months it wasn't funny I emotionally didn't cope neither did my eldest son he learnt that day what his Father was really like he was an emotional wreck also.
    He ruined our Christmas that year it was horrible. ...I have come from loving enjoying Christmas to paranoid nervous and afraid that it will happen again .....
    I will in my heart always hate him for that ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by purpleflowers View Post
    Around three years ago my husband pushed and pushed for a argument at Christmas. ....it went on for 5 days the tension and heart ache he finally packed up his stuff and walked out and left me to pick up the pieces ...I lost so much weight from not eating in 3 months it wasn't funny I emotionally didn't cope neither did my eldest son he learnt that day what his Father was really like he was an emotional wreck also.
    He ruined our Christmas that year it was horrible. ...I have come from loving enjoying Christmas to paranoid nervous and afraid that it will happen again .....
    I will in my heart always hate him for that ...

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    I can see why this would be a stressful time for you. Probably too late this year but maybe you could plan for next year a getaway for you and your kids over the Christmas period. It might help to have a different environment so you can start some new christmas memories for your family.

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    Quote Originally Posted by purpleflowers View Post
    Around three years ago my husband pushed and pushed for a argument at Christmas. ....it went on for 5 days the tension and heart ache he finally packed up his stuff and walked out and left me to pick up the pieces ...I lost so much weight from not eating in 3 months it wasn't funny I emotionally didn't cope neither did my eldest son he learnt that day what his Father was really like he was an emotional wreck also.
    He ruined our Christmas that year it was horrible. ...I have come from loving enjoying Christmas to paranoid nervous and afraid that it will happen again .....
    I will in my heart always hate him for that ...

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    I'm pretty much the same these days. My Christmas time is ruined and I just can't seem to get excited anymore

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    Quote Originally Posted by purpleflowers View Post
    Around three years ago my husband pushed and pushed for a argument at Christmas. ....it went on for 5 days the tension and heart ache he finally packed up his stuff and walked out and left me to pick up the pieces ...I lost so much weight from not eating in 3 months it wasn't funny I emotionally didn't cope neither did my eldest son he learnt that day what his Father was really like he was an emotional wreck also.
    He ruined our Christmas that year it was horrible. ...I have come from loving enjoying Christmas to paranoid nervous and afraid that it will happen again .....
    I will in my heart always hate him for that ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelicHobgoblin View Post
    I'm pretty much the same these days. My Christmas time is ruined and I just can't seem to get excited anymore
    My heart goes out to both you ladies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelicHobgoblin View Post
    I'm pretty much the same these days. My Christmas time is ruined and I just can't seem to get excited anymore
    I have that same feeling about my birthday. Many years ago my fathers funeral was held on my 18th birthday so the day has never been the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Suprisedmummy View Post
    I can't bring myself to care about christmas this year. I have made a plan to stay with dh over christmas so ds gets one last christmas as a family but I am leaving shortly after. Dh isn't making it any easier. He is getting harder to live with every day and I just can't look forward to any time I have to spend with him
    Huge hugs . Separation is hard at any time but it must be very stressful living in that environment. Try and get out as much as you can visiting family and friends, shopping, just going for a walk/drive to give yourself some space.
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    My DF will be in the middle of the ocean this Christmas. He will also miss new year, my birthday and valentines day. Im feeling rather emotional about it today 😢

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    Quote Originally Posted by brooketobub View Post
    My DF will be in the middle of the ocean this Christmas. He will also miss new year, my birthday and valentines day. Im feeling rather emotional about it today ������
    Anytime loved ones are away is hard but when it involves so many special days must make it even harder. I hope you are able to skype on those days at least. Hugs to you


 

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