DP wont be home for xmas. i have known for a month or so but the closer it gets the harder it is to comprehend. The only reason was because her brother and sister's kids will be there(back home overseas), she is not very close to her sister, her brother passed away a few years ago and just feels like shes missing out. Her mom doesn't approve of our relationship and doesn't wanna know about it or see anything.
Its starting to **** me off because, her brother's kids now wont be going(their moms make the final decision) and as usual closer to travel dates her sister has gone silent as usual which is a sign that she wont make the effort to turn up. The whole reason she was gong wont be there so we missing xmas with her for nothing.