I feel like a bad wife! and I feel that my hubby and i have lost that spark, we seem to always snap at each other and get on each others nerves, definitely no bedroom action in months - my 8 month old still wakes 2-3 times a night and my 4 year old is knackering! I feel that we don't make any effort anymore for each other, I'm usually always in my trackies with no make up! He is an amazing father but i just don't desire him anymore? Does that make sense? Anyone else out there feeling the same? What can i do?