Thanks ladies. DH and I don't tend to talk about my cycle that often. Don't get me wrong he is fully there for my egg collections and transfers but I think when I go into to many details about the female reproductive system he is probably imagining his favourite pub burning down. Lol.
I guess my biggest fear is the fact that at 7dp5dt it's still very early. But like you say we are in it together with all the ups and downs. I did have a plan that if bfp I would like to do something cute for valentines day involving a hpt or something but that's another week away which seems like forever to not tell him but by then I would have blood test results back. Oh damn it just sounds deceitful not to tell him I think.