DellaDella! One of my friends had this happen with FRER and it was just a test with dodgy dye. She's 18 weeks now. I really hope it's not a chemical, and if it is - you and I can rant and rave together. I've expressed my anger at my clinic for exactly the same things...last successful transfer (now 11 months old) I was on pregnyl for luteal phase support, this time nothing and guess what? I had a chemical pregnancy. I'm furious. Wrote to them and said that it shouldn't be up to me to suggest the best treatment plan, and if I've just flushed $1500 and two good embryos down the drain I'll be more than unimpressed. I've got pregnyl for this cycle but what if the one that I had a chemical with last cycle was "the one"?
How we're feeling is very normal and it does totally SUCK. You be angry if you need to, but I'd definitely say don't give up yet. Thinking of you.