Starflame I have been keeping an eye/ear out for new low cost IVF clinics and Monash IVF have opened a new service in Sydney. It only $800 out of pocket and you only have to attend 2 visits in person - Egg Collection and Embryo Transfer. All the rest are done by phone/skype Here is the link http://bumpivf.com.au/why-bump/ I have no personal experience with the clinic but it wouldn't hurt to look into it.
I also spoke to a couple of ladies who were able to withdraw money from their own/Hubby Super account in order to do IVF. Here is the link for that. http://mysupercare.com.au/services/ivf-services-advice/ they said it was a very simple process and really worth it to be able to access the services while still young.
Hope you are all doing well. After much tears I am embracing my new Childless Couple status - but we followed my counsellors advise and went to another clinic to get a final independent consultation on our situation so we will never be left thinking "What if". I have my appointment with them on Thursday to get all the test results and final word.