That is such a good question. I trust DH to keep dd safe and cared for but, just thinking about it now, I don't trust him to know what she needs when. I think it's a control issue for me. Dd is only 4.5 months old and I've never been away from her for more than thirty minutes. I know her so well and I'm not sure he would spot her tired signs or hungry signs like I can. That being said, he'll never learn if I don't let him try.