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    Quote Originally Posted by Chillies View Post
    Nooooo! Just hugs, I couldn't do that.
    I'm really struggling 😢

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoCo View Post
    I'm really struggling 😢
    Oh no! Why is she there for so long??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cue View Post
    Oh no! Why is she there for so long??
    Omg trying to give me "support" through a hard time which I appreciate but OMG 2 weeks is enough isn't it? I feel like such a cow but it's been SO hard. 2 months 🙈She wanted to spend time with her grandchildren. She has only made things worse for me and the kids. Anyway don't get me started or I'll write a novel!!
    All day I have to see tears, hear her whining and she complains about everything AGAIN my house, my dogs, my floors, my roof!!! Well sorry because of your SON I have had to downsize and BUDGET as a single mother!! DH and I will never get stronger like this

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    I have to add she is lovely and means well but oh lord we are in different realms I tell you!

    She hates Aussies hates Muslims hates Asians hates Indians I can't take it anymore!!! She even uses the word black I do NOT want that word used in my house now my 4 year old says it before my mil she never even noticed the difference between coloured people now she says BLACK omg!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoCo View Post
    I have to add she is lovely and means well but oh lord we are in different realms I tell you!

    She hates Aussies hates Muslims hates Asians hates Indians I can't take it anymore!!! She even uses the word black I do NOT want that word used in my house now my 4 year old says it before my mil she never even noticed the difference between coloured people now she says BLACK omg!!!
    Nope, just nope. I would be furious! My dh's nan is like that-hence only ever meeting with her 3 times. 3 times too many. 2 months is a long time to put up with anyone in that circumstance. You're a better person than me LoCo!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoCo View Post
    I have to add she is lovely and means well but oh lord we are in different realms I tell you!

    She hates Aussies hates Muslims hates Asians hates Indians I can't take it anymore!!! She even uses the word black I do NOT want that word used in my house now my 4 year old says it before my mil she never even noticed the difference between coloured people now she says BLACK omg!!!
    omg you poor thing. 2 months would drive me into insanity!!!

    it's hard when you know they mean well but that's just too long. I'd struggle having my own mum live with me for 2 months, never mind someone else's lol.

    as for the racist rants, that's seriously not cool. it's your house and she needs to respect your rules and boundaries.

    what background is she if she hates everyone, Aussies included? I'm guessing either English or European?

    there's no way I'd be having racist comments in my house either, esp not around young children!

    treat yourself to something nice (facial, massage, pedi, dinner with hubby somewhere nice) after she leaves and enjoy your own space again!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoCo View Post
    Try having your mother in law live with you for 2 months 😢I am seriously about to crack. One more day until this nightmare is over 😶
    😨😨😨 no no no i really feel for you hun.

    I lived with mine for 3 months while we were waiting for renters to move out of our newly bought property. That was horrible. And we didn't even have kids yet then. When we were pregnant with ds1 they tried to get us to move in with them to save money. I told dh there was no way in hell. If he tried to make me I'd leave him. It never happened!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chillies View Post
    Nope, just nope. I would be furious! My dh's nan is like that-hence only ever meeting with her 3 times. 3 times too many. 2 months is a long time to put up with anyone in that circumstance. You're a better person than me LoCo!
    I'm not a better person 🙈 just learnt to bite my tongue I am so on the verge though so so on the verge oh god someone help me 😣

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    Quote Originally Posted by turquoisecoast View Post
    omg you poor thing. 2 months would drive me into insanity!!!

    it's hard when you know they mean well but that's just too long. I'd struggle having my own mum live with me for 2 months, never mind someone else's lol.

    as for the racist rants, that's seriously not cool. it's your house and she needs to respect your rules and boundaries.

    what background is she if she hates everyone, Aussies included? I'm guessing either English or European?

    there's no way I'd be having racist comments in my house either, esp not around young children!

    treat yourself to something nice (facial, massage, pedi, dinner with hubby somewhere nice) after she leaves and enjoy your own space again!!
    Yep European but my family is not like this. If you hate Aussies why are you here omg! My kids are born here therefore Aussies! I was born here DH was born here therefore Aussies!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by meandmyboys82 View Post
    😨😨😨 no no no i really feel for you hun.

    I lived with mine for 3 months while we were waiting for renters to move out of our newly bought property. That was horrible. And we didn't even have kids yet then. When we were pregnant with ds1 they tried to get us to move in with them to save money. I told dh there was no way in hell. If he tried to make me I'd leave him. It never happened!
    She's gone 😌 I think I'll need a month to get over it!

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