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    Quote Originally Posted by mummymaybe View Post
    Today while talking to MIL about her being so down lately she said "you not giving me grandchildren is one of the reasons I'm so depressed and suicidal"

    I've got a thick skin but this has knocked me for 6.
    Every time I read this thread, I'm blown away that MILs can be so heartless. I mean, how is it ever okay to say something like this? It's like it came from Emotional Blackmail 101!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScubaGal View Post
    Omg I did that this Christmas... We'd had a miscarriage earlier last year so when we got pregnant again it was really special to us and I printed out this great, really clear 3D pic of bubs face that looks just like a photo and put it inside DH's parents and my parents Xmas cards. I'm horrified that you think it's so awful :O
    oh Hun I'm sorry. I can't speak for your circumstances, nor that if anyone else. certainly did not intend my story and sentiments to be a generalization and be applied to everyone.

    i don't think it's awful, I think the way in which BIL's wife goes about things is awful. i was criticizing the person, not the action.

    apologies if it came across the wrong way x

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    Quote Originally Posted by SAgirl View Post
    My dad had open heart surgery on Wednesday, he lives alone in qld and I'm in nsw (only child etc)

    In the lead up to the surgery, I was telling mil my plan to come up and look after my dad etc and she told me I don't have to come up for the surgery because the hospital will look after him.

    I thought that was so insensitive and rude! Especially because between her and FIL we have been by their side for 5 surgeries the past 6 or so years, and then she goes and says that no one needs to be with MY dad. 😥
    maybe she was trying to allay your fears and make you feel as though he's in good hands at the hospital? rude and insensitive way to put it, I agree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lolly007 View Post
    maybe she was trying to allay your fears and make you feel as though he's in good hands at the hospital? rude and insensitive way to put it, I agree.
    Thanks but I think it was more a case of her not wanting to look after our 2 young boys

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    Quote Originally Posted by SAgirl View Post
    Thanks but I think it was more a case of her not wanting to look after our 2 young boys
    gahhh. bloody family politics :/

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    My MIL says FILUM (film) and PILLAR. (Pillow). Does. My. Head. In.

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    FIL: If you have a C section then your vagina won't get sore.

    my mil is ok its own mother who is an absolute monster.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babybloom View Post
    FIL: If you have a C section then your vagina won't get sore.

    my mil is ok its own mother who is an absolute monster.
    FIL talking about your vagina? Eewww creepy!

    My FIL thought it appropriate to lecture me about not trying hard enough to breastfeed (my ds had a tongue tie, couldn't latch and was starving), and then proceeded to tell my about how my MIL breastfed her boys for over a year blah blah blah and i was failing my son. Wish I'd been as outspoken then as i am now, cos he would have got a huge F U! My MIL constantly ignores me when it comes to my son, it makes me furious. She acts like he's her child. Having #2 in a week and a half. Should be interesting. I have come out of my shell A LOT since our first son was born. Not afraid to speak up this time 😈

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    When DH called to announce our second baby was on the way & due mid December, MIL complained that we ruined Christmas with our timing because we wouldn't be able to travel interstate to visit them. She then proceeded to ring me to 'congratulate' me by saying the same thing to me. All the while knowing we had endured 5 miscarriages prior to that. Once again we find ourselves due in early January after telling them we would be there for Christmas this year and she straight up said the same thing about our poor timing and ruining Christmas. So predictable and such a cow.


 

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