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    I'll start by saying mil isn't always bad, she's kind hearted and goes too far with some things. But when it comes to my ds we butt heads continually as our parenting methods are different.

    But one thing that really hurt was when ds was born. When I went to the hospital to be induced we told her we'd call her when he was born and we were ready for visitors. Well she was at the hospital within 2 hours. I was obviously still in labour. Things went downhill with my labour and I was taken for a c section and it ended up being under general.

    Well mil and bil both saw my ds while I was still under. Mil took photos of ds and dh together, this wasn't so bad, what really upset me was she then sent those photos to everyone. I hadn't even seen or held my ds yet!

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    Quote Originally Posted by munchkin275 View Post
    I'll start by saying mil isn't always bad, she's kind hearted and goes too far with some things. But when it comes to my ds we butt heads continually as our parenting methods are different.

    But one thing that really hurt was when ds was born. When I went to the hospital to be induced we told her we'd call her when he was born and we were ready for visitors. Well she was at the hospital within 2 hours. I was obviously still in labour. Things went downhill with my labour and I was taken for a c section and it ended up being under general.

    Well mil and bil both saw my ds while I was still under. Mil took photos of ds and dh together, this wasn't so bad, what really upset me was she then sent those photos to everyone. I hadn't even seen or held my ds yet!

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    Oh my god. That's just horrible!! People just don't think! Bad enough that they met your DS let alone send out photos! Wow I'm really angry for you haha

    I'm about to have our first and I've told DH that under NO circumstances is anyone other than him allowed to even look at our baby before I do. It's sad that this isn't common sense for people 😑

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    Quote Originally Posted by munchkin275 View Post
    I'll start by saying mil isn't always bad, she's kind hearted and goes too far with some things. But when it comes to my ds we butt heads continually as our parenting methods are different.

    But one thing that really hurt was when ds was born. When I went to the hospital to be induced we told her we'd call her when he was born and we were ready for visitors. Well she was at the hospital within 2 hours. I was obviously still in labour. Things went downhill with my labour and I was taken for a c section and it ended up being under general.

    Well mil and bil both saw my ds while I was still under. Mil took photos of ds and dh together, this wasn't so bad, what really upset me was she then sent those photos to everyone. I hadn't even seen or held my ds yet!

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    Oh my god, I would be livid!! I don't understand how people don't get or even think that you as the mother would not be very happy with that. Imagine if she was in your shoes would she have liked someone else seeing her baby before her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by munchkin275 View Post
    I'll start by saying mil isn't always bad, she's kind hearted and goes too far with some things. But when it comes to my ds we butt heads continually as our parenting methods are different.

    But one thing that really hurt was when ds was born. When I went to the hospital to be induced we told her we'd call her when he was born and we were ready for visitors. Well she was at the hospital within 2 hours. I was obviously still in labour. Things went downhill with my labour and I was taken for a c section and it ended up being under general.

    Well mil and bil both saw my ds while I was still under. Mil took photos of ds and dh together, this wasn't so bad, what really upset me was she then sent those photos to everyone. I hadn't even seen or held my ds yet!

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    Holy crap, I'd be so angry and probably wouldn't speak to them ever again (slight exaggeration...maybe). Talk about violated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by munchkin275 View Post
    I'll start by saying mil isn't always bad, she's kind hearted and goes too far with some things. But when it comes to my ds we butt heads continually as our parenting methods are different.

    But one thing that really hurt was when ds was born. When I went to the hospital to be induced we told her we'd call her when he was born and we were ready for visitors. Well she was at the hospital within 2 hours. I was obviously still in labour. Things went downhill with my labour and I was taken for a c section and it ended up being under general.

    Well mil and bil both saw my ds while I was still under. Mil took photos of ds and dh together, this wasn't so bad, what really upset me was she then sent those photos to everyone. I hadn't even seen or held my ds yet!

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    I was rushed for a emergency c section and SIL told MIL even though we hadn't spoken to her in 5 months and she turned up at the hospital when I was still in theatre. Well she yelled and carried on at DH because he told her under no circumstance was anyone besides him and medical staff going to see DS1 before me and then she stormed off when he asked her to wait outside the room when I was bought up from theatre incase I got exposed during the bed transfer and he didn't want me to be embarrassed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaybu84 View Post
    Oh my god. That's just horrible!! People just don't think! Bad enough that they met your DS let alone send out photos! Wow I'm really angry for you haha

    I'm about to have our first and I've told DH that under NO circumstances is anyone other than him allowed to even look at our baby before I do. It's sad that this isn't common sense for people 😑
    We said this but no one listened. Next baby I will be putting it on paper to the hospital

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    Quote Originally Posted by munchkin275 View Post
    I'll start by saying mil isn't always bad, she's kind hearted and goes too far with some things. But when it comes to my ds we butt heads continually as our parenting methods are different.

    But one thing that really hurt was when ds was born. When I went to the hospital to be induced we told her we'd call her when he was born and we were ready for visitors. Well she was at the hospital within 2 hours. I was obviously still in labour. Things went downhill with my labour and I was taken for a c section and it ended up being under general.

    Well mil and bil both saw my ds while I was still under. Mil took photos of ds and dh together, this wasn't so bad, what really upset me was she then sent those photos to everyone. I hadn't even seen or held my ds yet!

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    That's so unfair I would not be putting up with it. Dh was saying he reckons his mum will be hoping to be at my next birth cause mum was at dd's um no if u have someone again it's mum but then I trust her more with dd for the day/night lol

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    Since what I posted on this thread the otherday my MIL has been trying to ring I think, I'm ignoring her as I can't be bothered with anymore of her crap plus she'll just dig her heels in further. My SIL is being equally silly. I've just unfreided her on FB can't deal with any of them anymore, completely childish.

    I hate them talking about me behind my back. I wouldn't do it to them, they'd hate it. So what makes them think I'd like it or anyone else. Sickens me! I can't be bothered with either of them anymore, the apron strings have been well and truly cut from my end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by munchkin275 View Post
    I'll start by saying mil isn't always bad, she's kind hearted and goes too far with some things. But when it comes to my ds we butt heads continually as our parenting methods are different.

    But one thing that really hurt was when ds was born. When I went to the hospital to be induced we told her we'd call her when he was born and we were ready for visitors. Well she was at the hospital within 2 hours. I was obviously still in labour. Things went downhill with my labour and I was taken for a c section and it ended up being under general.

    Well mil and bil both saw my ds while I was still under. Mil took photos of ds and dh together, this wasn't so bad, what really upset me was she then sent those photos to everyone. I hadn't even seen or held my ds yet!

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    How thoughtless. Some people think they can do what they like without a care for anyone else. I'd be devastated too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zoz View Post
    I have a great one that happened today.

    Way back in December of last year all the family had a get together for new years I think it was a couple of days before new years eve, was a bbq. My 3 kids were being ferals and bear in mind it's school holidays so they were getting bored and the days seemed endless, I'm sure most of you ladies can relate?

    Anyway I went outside just to get a breather and alone time, my SIL came out to see what was wrong I unloaded on her and told her the kids were driving me nuts and I was a bit tired and was happy to get a few minuites alone time. We go back inside all is done and back to normal after a few tears.

    Fast forward till now. My SIL is talking to my MIL without me present, my MIL asks what went on that afternoon why I disappeared. So my SIL tells her I was upset the kids were annoying me and I wanted a few minutes breather.

    My MIL goes and tells my DH this morning that 'I hate my kids' apparently especially one of them more. So I hate my DD. It's ridiculous and not true. She had taken from that conversation and interpreted that I'd said I hate the kids.

    My MIL has told everyone I hate my kids and can't cope, just from that conversation one hectic afternoon with my SIL.

    What makes it worse is my DH went back over to my MIL's house and she got cranky at him for telling me what she said.

    Very silly woman. Luckily my DH saw through it and knew I wouldn't say anything like that in the first place. I think she was sh!t stirring. And to think I thought she was actually ok as I hadn't heard anything of her for a while.

    I hope that's readable and can understand it? I needed to vent it so this is great.

    So now my DH thinks I hate the kids, although he knows I don't really but the rest of the family do! Great one MIL you bloody idiot!!!
    Gosh! It's like she's been waiting for an opportunity - any opportunity - to strike. That's just nasty!


 

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