Not a mil one (despite her general behaviour sometimes, she was actually always really lovely to me), but a bil one.
Dh was told before we met it would be a miracle if he ever fathered a child- im not sure on exact details but from bits he has said it was something to do with his sperm count. We desperately wanted a boy and had 2 dd's already. When bil and his gf announced their 1st pregnancy we were thrilled for them, they had a baby girl and dh and bil joked now its a race to see who has the first boy. I fell pregnant with dd3, another girl. Then found out i was pregnant with dd4. Bil's gf found out she was pregnant and due 5 weeks after me. We found out we were having another girl and tbh I didnt take it well and although dh was upset too he tried not to show it. Bil and the gf knew how we felt. A few weeks later bil and gf announced they were having a boy. And then bil said to dh "who is the manliest *last name* now!". It was said in a half joking half put down way and dh was crushed. Not because we didnt have a boy, but because it was mentioned to us not long before that apparently males with low sperm count have higher chances of having a girl and dh felt like he had let us down.