I think my mil still thinks of my boys as being little 3 year olds.. They're 6. Not like she would know, she hardly sees them.
She got them an early Christmas present of horrible cheap "Bali" t-shirts from when she was over there in oct (missing the boys birthday- I feel on purpose but would never tell df) and rashies which I told her they needed. Only she got lightning McQueen and whatever that plane is called from the planes movie. My boys were polite enough to say thanks, but they told me later they wouldn't wear them. Thank god it was from big w and I went and swapped them for ones they would wear.
She also fawns over dd while ignoring the boys- it's sickening. Dd hates her and won't go near her. Of course it's because she has no bloody idea who she is. As far as dd is concerned she only has one nan, and that's the one she sees at least once a week.