Was not my intention to alarm anyone! Sorry if I have. I think it depends on your ob...mine had no idea about immune issues and was happy to be guided by Dr M's suggestions. She does like to induce or deliver IVF bubs by 39wks. That said, I've had IVF friends deliver naturally post dates (even one at 42wks)...the research i'd done and the advice I received led me to make the decisions I did regarding my care. I'd definitely be asking lots of questions so you can make a decision that works best for you.
My current pregnancy was a natural
Conception (biggest shock after IVF to conceive DD) but given my immune issues I'm still higher risk so based on advice from Dr M, my OB and Dr Beers book I am choosing a c/s between 38-39wks.