Hi everyone! So ... I have been with my partner for 3 years and I already have a son (who calls him dad) and we would love to expand our family BUT ... I can't help but feel like I am too much of a planner and for this reason I will never feel like the time is "right". I struggled so much as a single mum, didn't have money and I still have so much guilt that my son missed out on so many things that I REALLY don't want to find myself in a situation where my family wont have much money.

my partner and I both work fulltime but how do I just bite the bullet and let life take it's course? Or what are the main things that I should have prepared/ready to take some of the load off? It has been over 7 years since I had my son so I have forgotten the cost of babies lol.

Any advice would help because I have started crying all the time because all we want is a baby