Ahh I'm still thinking about my self and trying to work out what's the best thing for me, I meant more that I'm not sitting around and wallowing in a state of self pity/poor me and obsessing over it. It is what it is, I can't change it or fix it so I just need to focus on the future. My friend is great though, we are kind of like each other's voice of reason. She's the one I talk to the most about it all. So we do still talk about me and what's happening and how I'm feeling etc, but I am also aware that she has a lot going on at the moment and it's more important to me to be there for her than it is to fixate on my own problems.
@MrsTugs I have done 2 cycles now, 1x fresh 3day transfer and 1x frozen 5/6day transfer (I'm fairly certain it was a day 6, but can't remember exactly). Next cycle, number 3, will be another fresh cycle because we only had the one frozen. I'm hoping the acupuncturist can help improve our chances this time around!