Thanks fudge, I hope I didn't sound too patronizing with my 'pep' talk. I just want to offer my support and two more go's with your own eggs sounds like a good plan.
Skylar I think everyone knows what suits them regarding the pursuit of babies and what it means for them. I agree it is deeply personal issue and it sounds great that your partner are both on the same page about it.
Period came today, so with my doctor being ill that means I have just missed an opportunity to do a transfer this month. ****.. I'm going to have two more periods till I can see this other doctor. This sucks.. I could see if I can get in earlier with other doctors at the clinic but she seems the most experienced one and that has been doing this the longest, along with my doctor. It's a hard decision. Still hoping my doc will recover enough to treat me again.