Hi ladies - just dropping in to say hi. Hoping for a bit more around here soon! Our little man is 1yo today. IVF is a rough ride with no guarantees but I do hope that all of you here are successful in your quests
Good luck winsor, sending you brave vibes. It'll be hard but if it works it'll all be worth it.
I've got my scan today. Not looking forward to it. 😢
Oh well, I've just made a total ****ing idiot out of myself.... Nothing unusual there...
I had an appointment for a scan with Wazza this morning CD12 to see if there were any follicles developing and there was one good size one and my lining was 7.3 so that looked OK.
Then he started talking about what I wanted to do - blood tests, trigger shot, extra shots over the next week, IUI etc and I just couldn't take it in at all, I was so emotional and upset I just didn't say two words, folded the paperwork, put it in my bag and walked out.
I was supposed to see Kate and talk through all the options and I just couldn't face it. An hour and a half drive there and a hour and a half back, all just to say, yep, one follicle, will likely ovulate in the next few days.
**** my life.
you only need one with a good egg in it, so it's not all lost @Leisylou. and 1 is better than none. some more will probably grow during the week if that's your first scan and they might catch up. can you call your nurse/doctor and discuss the options over the phone once you've calmed a bit. I'm sure they understand that it's hard to take it all in at times
Thanks winsor, but this scan was to see if the fetus was still alive. But just found out at the scan that it's gone. Eight weeks we lasted till.
oh no sorry I must have read the msg wrong. that's so sad. I hope you're ok
Thank you winsor and leisylou, just gotta keep on. Doctors tomorrow to decide on management.
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