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    Default Desperately seeking help after 20 miscarriages with a kind surrogate

    Hi Everyone,

    So this is my very first forum i have became a member on.... At present i write this will a heavy heart..

    June this yr i suffered my 20th miscarriage... In 2002 I married my ex husband and not long after our wedding we were excited to find out we were expecting our first.... Unfortunately i suffered a miscarriage at 11 weeks and i thought my whole world had ended. Not long after i was lucky enough to conceive again and this time i carried to term. I gave birth 1 week late to a 5"4oz baby girl whom we almost loss during birth. During labor i was diagnosed with missed Pre-eclampsia and told my daughter may not survive the birth. Once she was born sacred of losing her i refused to hold her, but with amazing support of my husband at the time i finally held her for the first time and its something i will never forget.

    Over the years i suffered another 14 miscarriages, the heartbreak got too much for me and slowly i pushed my husband away until we ended up separating (we still remain very good friends and share custody of our now 11 daughter) I was very lucky to meet a man who has been by my side from the day i meet him, but unfortunately my luck with miscarriages followed me into my new marriage. I have been re married for 4 years and have suffered 6 miscarriages with my husband.. He has been amazing a been through a very rough time with all the test i have been through and trying to stay strong for me but crying on the inside...

    I can remember the look in my ex husbands eyes when he held our daughter for the first and when he was there for all her first times, and seeing how proud he was and still is... I long to give that to my husband and it kills me that i can't give this to him. I physically can not go through another miscarriage but do not want to give up on the hope one day i can see that look in my husbands eyes and give him that best feeling in the world of becoming a parent... He is an amazing Step father to my daughter and he always tells me that he is lucky enough to have her and she makes him happy and proud as if she is his own......

    Please we are looking for a gestational surrogate and will do anything to find that special lady that can give us the best gift in the world.... i hope you are out there and i will continue to pray u find us soon

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    Default Hi

    Hi mumma.
    I'm chandelle. I'm in nsw, where abouts are you located. I'm 25, with 2 kids of my own and looking to give the gift of children to someone else

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    Quote Originally Posted by YoungMum21yr View Post
    Hi mumma.
    I'm chandelle. I'm in nsw, where abouts are you located. I'm 25, with 2 kids of my own and looking to give the gift of children to someone else
    Thank you for taking the time to read my story we are located in Brisbane

    Thank you so much .

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    Tezz, PM and I can lead you to where most Altruistic matches are made

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    Quote Originally Posted by sophie11 View Post
    Tezz, PM and I can lead you to where most Altruistic matches are made
    hi Sophie,

    sorry for the late reply. My husband and I would love your help. Please get back to me . Waiting for your response

    terri ☺️

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    Way to go. You are doing a wonderful thing.


 

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