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    Default Hurt feelings - am I being too sensitive?

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    I understand why you feel hurt and it's totally ok to feel that way.

    I'm certain by the tone of what you've written and the "I feel so stupid typing this" etc that you realise it's not all black and white, and maybe there's more to it, or that things have changed.

    None the less it would hurt anyone's feelings. xox

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    Different rules for different people can really sting, especially when it's you that gets left out in the cold.

    You could always bring it up with your sibling, but you sound non-confrontational like I am so I can understand if you would be reluctant to do so. Otherwise I just grin and bear it. Not much of a choice really, is it?

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    Sorry I didn't get to read it before it was deleted but just wanted to say I hope you are OK xo

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    didnt get to read - but wanted to give you a . seems like you need it today

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    Thanks so much for the support, I honestly thought I'd get a few "get over it" responses because this isn't exactly a huge problem and there are people on this board with much bigger issues to deal with.

    My sibling ended up asking me if I was upset at them as I hadn't texted them in a while because I didn't really know how to act. I did explain that I was upset and why and they basically explained the situation in a bit more depth and apologised profusely. It's a rather complicated situation with them and it's causing some in law family friction so it wasn't a simple matter of "yes sure we'd love to have you stay as long as you want" kind of thing.

    I'm okay now. I do hate confrontation, but once they asked me if I was okay I couldn't lie. Things are okay now.

    Once again, thanks for the support, I appreciate it so much. It's nice to feel welcome.

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    Glad you worked things out


 

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