Penny, I picked him based on physical traits as well but also looked for donors without any medical conditions. Angela looks like me so that means she doesn't stand out at family gatherings lol. Embie count sounds good, if you can freeze some that would be a big bonus as well.
Hi Skyler, thanks for that - it is hard to get there but perseverance sometimes pays off. I hope you have the same success.
Sue, good luck with your transfer. I know people walk on eggshells during the 2ww but in my experience it doesn't matter what you are doing or eating, if an embie is meant to become a person it wil stick so try to relax and not think about it too much. I know easier said than done ! Also stay away from pee sticks !!