Hi lovely ladies and welcome @tryingfornum1 Try not to get too worried about your AMH, as the other ladies have said it's more about how you respond to the drugs and also egg quality. It's good that you are kicking thing off at the age you are now and you're in with one of the best FS in the country so you have every reason to feel positive
@Kelly70 - just weighing in with my 2 cents on your situation with the guy - for me, if I met a new love interest now then there is no question that I would be upfront about the fact I'm doing IVF with donor sperm but there is no way I would stop at this point as time is of the essence. I don't feel I have the time to pause and see if a new love interest is the 'one' I could have babies with - if it turns out he is then it would take at least 6 months to work that out and my fertility will have declined further by then. If it doesn't work out then I would have wasted months. Either way, I would invest time I don't feel I have in a relationship and possibly miss my chance to be a Mum (with my own eggs). The other thing I'd have in the back of my mind is that it's easy for him to say now while he's pursuing you that he'd have a vasectomy reversal but when push comes to shove, what's to stop him changing his mind? It happens all the time - man says he is open to having kids at the beginning and then after months/years invested in the relationship changes his mind. So, I guess what I'm saying in a long winded way, is the fact he has had a vasectomy wouldn't stop me dating him if there were chemistry, but I definitely would not put my baby plans on hold. If he's the right man for you then he'll understand how important it is for you to continue on your path to chase your dream. Sorry, if I'm being too black and white - I know it's not easy.
Sending positive thoughts for your brother xx
AFM I had EPU yesterday and got my results this morning. 4 eggs fertilised out of 7 eggs. Well done Wazza!! I'm feeling relieved I'm in a better position than I was last cycle but it's going to be a nerve wracking few days waiting until Saturday. Fingers crossed I have at least one good quality blastie to transfer