@Kelly70 you're a match for your brother Luv. And I echo what @Skyler said about being a great source of support for your SIL. It's great you are close to one another and have each other to confide in and talk things over with as well as offer strength and comfort too when needed.
I hope the chemo doesn't knock your brother around too much Luv, you never know, some people seem to cope with it a lot better than others. I'm hoping it's like that for your brother. I know it seems like a long time, but I'm guessing that's most likely the quickest timeframe they can get what's no doubt a pretty hefty dose of the chemo into him for it to do its job without making your brother really ill Luv and wiping out his whole immune system, etc. plus I have no doubt his Specialists want to make sure they wipe out all of the b*st*rd cancer too!!
for the acupuncture and herbs and I hope your appointment at the new FC goes really well. Am also glad to see you persevering with TTC despite what's happening with your brother. Thinking of you all