Hi @Kelly70 I am really enjoying my break away from the world of IVF, enjoying coffee and a few drinks and living life. I turn 40 on Tuesday so wanted to be able to enjoy that and then the next month is Xmas and my FS is away so I will do a FET in late Jan early Feb.
One of my 2 friends who know I am doing IVF told me yesterday she is pregnant with her 2nd, she hasn't wanted to tell me incase it upset me. I am so happy for her but was also a little sad, she was so kind and thoughtful to think about my feelings and she kept saying it is so unfair that it happened so easily for her and her DH. I'm glad she didn't tell me 4 weeks ago when I was an emotional wreck because I handled the news pretty well, still stings though.
I'm sorry you have to go through this sole searching, it is really $hit that it has to be so hard and there isn't anything we can do about it.