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    Personally, I think relationships can survive ebbs and flows of love but not completely different values and outlooks.

    Have you told your OP how you feel? It help you both to talk things through. I'm sorry, I know it's hard. Sending you courage and strength x

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    Hey it's a shame but no one should make you feel like that. He should want the best for you, want you to be successful, make sacrifices so you're happy in life. If an honest conversation with him doesn't lead to any changes I hope you put yourself first when thinking what to do.

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    The kids have been awful, so I arranged a night off for us. Instead DP has fallen asleep.

    FFS, I get no intimacy as it is. I feel like waking him up, telling him it's over and going to sleep in a vacant bed. I'm so over this loneliness.

    Sorry, just really frustrated. 😥

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    So selfish! Sounds like you need a night off anyway - any girlfriends you can count on for a good night?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nomia View Post
    The kids have been awful, so I arranged a night off for us. Instead DP has fallen asleep.

    FFS, I get no intimacy as it is. I feel like waking him up, telling him it's over and going to sleep in a vacant bed. I'm so over this loneliness.

    Sorry, just really frustrated. 😥
    wake him up, tell him you're going out!!

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    Just wanted thank you for the support. Maybe it's the sleep deprivation or general stress that had taken hold, but I feel much more positive about our outlook.

    One thing we have discussed is trying to change his work times and days to be more consistent. This rotating roster is killing me, a weekend every second week doesn't give me time to regroup.


 

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