I don't know what to do anymore I feel like I don't even know who I married. This past week I feel like everyday I have discovered a new lie that my DH has told me..
He started working closely with a female co worker which I am completely fine with until about two weeks ago..
I was talking to DH about getting laser hair removal on my bikini line.. He didn't really seem to pay any attention which is fine I get he's a guy and has no clue about that kind of stuff I just thought I would see if he ok with me spending the money..
A few days later he came home and said that his beautician friend came in and he asked her about pricing for me and his co worker came over and said she's had he whole vijay jay done and how good it is and how she's got nothing down there.. I felt really uncomfortable about the whole situation and I let him know this and I asked him why this female co worker felt completely comfortable talking to him about her vijay jay and is that the type of conversation he would normally have with her.. He said said no way he's not sure why she chimed in on the conversation and she never talks like that then said "maybe she's trying to **** off Shaun" (the other male worker that is married) then he tried to take that comment back and I was completely confused.. Then he fessed up and said she is very flirty with him..
I said as long as she's not like that with you and it's a professional relationship that's ok.
Anyway during the week he was doing things for his friends after work and was lying to me about all of these other thing that were completely insignificant but he felt the need to lie when I asked him about it?
Then last night I pressed the female worker thing because I felt there was more he wasn't telling me and after all the other stupid lies I wanted to make sure, so he completely denied her being inappropriate and that she flirts with the other 3 guys but not him.. And she also bags out Shaun's wife while she's flirting with him.. And she has a bf herself..
A few hours later he finally confessed that she does talk inappropriately around him and talks about having sex with other girls and her sex life!
For the last 3 months he's kept it under wraps because he didn't want to upset me but it looks even worse keeping it a secret for this long..and I feel like there could be more but he just won't own up..
I wouldn't be so bothered if he told me from the start that she's a bit flirty and talked about sex but the fact he's denied, lied, stood up for her and tried the made me feel stupid makes it so much worse..
I am so miserable and I don't know what to do.. Am I over reacting????