And he's probably got some good ammo to bury me in the future if he gets nasty and takes me down for a custody battle. I hope he plays nice.... i am prepared to be completely fair on him and do 50/50 if he wants it... or ill have the kids more if that suites him. But i have shown a lot of anger. And on the nigh i found out about it all i did slap him. Not proud of it... oh well if he screws me over in the future ill just have to deal with it like i have to deal with this and just hope my kids come back to me one day when they're older.