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    Wowsers you are so not over reacting! What kind of man does this to his heavily pg wife (obviously not pg you don't deserve it either but ykwim)? And to say his intentions are pure? please. It sounds like an emotional affair in the least to me, and if it isn't physical it would have quickly escalated to one had you not come down on it.

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    I am such a mess. I am terrified of whats ahead of me now. He was my only true support network. Now i am faced with reconciling with my mother in order for her to watch my DS as i wont have the money for a babysitter and I am not ready to face any friends about this yet so would rather not involve them. We have mutual friends, and I am not mentally strong enough to tell them whats happened. Im a mess.

    I cant even get myself back together again to call the hospital. I might have to do it tomorrow. God i feel so lost with it all. I have told him the house will go on the market once I am ready. All our dreams of moving to the hills and being a happy family there amongst like minded people have been shattered.

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    I was hoping to have a good go at a drug free birth this time since my birth with DS was traumatic due to a placenta abruption. But i feel so weak physically and mentally now that i don't think ill be able to cope Ill have to let them know ill be needing an epi i think because i just dont have it in me.

    I have irrational fears of not surviving the birth due to last times complications so dealing with that as well as whats going on i don't know how I will go.

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    I have had to block his phone number, and then block him off facebook as he keeps messaging me with the same recycled story of him having good intentions, that he was just wanting a friend in her, that he wanted her advice on rearing children... i just cant believe it. He never shows any interest when i try to talk to him about children things or pregnancy things as he's too busy on his phone!! Allt he damn time. Chatting away to her.

    I am broken now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Serenity Love View Post

    I am broken now.
    You are stonger than you know... I don't know your back story but from what I gather from just this thread you've had it pretty tough. That makes you strong because you got through it. You feel broken now because you've just had your heart ripped out.. but you ARE strong!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Serenity Love View Post
    I was hoping to have a good go at a drug free birth this time since my birth with DS was traumatic due to a placenta abruption. But i feel so weak physically and mentally now that i don't think ill be able to cope Ill have to let them know ill be needing an epi i think because i just dont have it in me.

    I have irrational fears of not surviving the birth due to last times complications so dealing with that as well as whats going on i don't know how I will go.
    Hugs to you
    Please know you can 100% do this ! Complications are not in our hands, but You are a women And you are so strong to me! I too had a traumatic terrible first birth it made me so mad (and psychotic) that I feel like I turned into hulk lol and knew my ither experience didnt need to be my others and they weren't - talk to your and self breath say self reliance Even if you end up with an epi who cares you just need to stay in a good frame of mind over and over don't let yourself panic once even with a c/s you can use this technique good luck

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    I created a account on hi5 and decided to look her up and send her a message. I dont wish to call her as i am having strong braxton hicks now, and feel just sending a message is far more gentle on my baby and body. So here goes. Thought id share:

    Hello there scrag. I would like to thank you for managing to bring out one of the worst sides to my 'husband' that i have ever experienced. Before you go feeling all proud of yourself for destroying a marriage and a family (well quite frank you were only the last straw, he's a repeat offender with sleazy online chat ups and attempts to meet up. At least this time the woman he has targeted isn't giving a blow job with cum all over her face, but hey; i'll give you a bit more time) I would like to have you know you are far from anything special as while he seems to feel the need to do this sort of crap he has no plans to ever leave me. I am just expected to tolerate it. He was supposed to spend the day with our son yet he was on the ****ing phone to you entertaining your miserable lonely desperate ****, and then making several trips out to the shops to "get things".... when in fact he was trying to call you and didn't have the respect to tell me. He has never gone this far with this crap, but its better it comes out eventually hey and I have you to thank for managing to bring out this deceitful cunning manipulative side to him that i have never seen until he has been chatting to you. And then you calling him to get the ball rolling (as he claims you made the first phone call) setting off this cute little game of cat and mouse yesterday. How thrilling that must have been for you! How exciting to be getting this attention from this younger man... wow you're a awesome person. What a woman! You must be so proud that you are nothing more than a desperate random internet slag that finds pleasure in latching onto younger men. Well played! But you haven't ruined me, in fact you have set me free and i know in the long run I will be far better off. But it just says a lot about what kind of person you are to have the skills to latch onto a younger married man who you have sniffed out as being a easy target, of which he is to types like yourself. And you have roped him into this constant chatting bull**** that has completely consumed him and led him astray. I find it hilarious this woman he has known online for a couple weeks thinks she has the right to get involved in peoples marriages like you have,and then believe you can speak to the wife and fix up this mess. All i can say is thank you for this though, he's all yours - enjoy him as the piece of crap got me to wax his hairy stomach for him last night all ready for his coffee date with you today. You can have him and his issues as you seem like a very fitting pair. One thing i can guarantee you though... is you would never have been any more than a **** to keep himself into practice for me. But i guess you're happy just being that as women like you will never be anything more.

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    Wow! Well said! How do you feel now?

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    I think i feel a bit better, not crying now but strong braxton hicks probably thanks to the stress. Im a bit calmer now though. I think it helped writing that to her. Whether its tactful or not, i just had to say it.

    I feel a little numb for the moment i think.

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