+ Reply to Thread
Page 4 of 15 FirstFirst ... 2345614 ... LastLast
Results 31 to 40 of 148
  1. #31
    Join Date
    Sep 2014
    Posts
    1,786
    Thanks
    948
    Thanked
    544
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Awards:
    100 Posts in a week
    Quote Originally Posted by Serenity Love View Post
    He is now texting me telling me how unfair it is that he has been misunderstood and the woman is offering to talk to me to let me know that they didn't plan on sleeping with each other!!

    He told me his morning he ended it with her and now he's still talking to her and trying to guilt trip me and push me into a corner. F*cking dog he is. Who the hell have i married!!! Why does he need to do this now when I am about to go into fricken labor. I have told him i wont let him near our son and the baby until he has gone to see a psychologist.
    I definitely wouldn't be answering messages, turn your phone off and take some time to get your head together especially being so close to having your baby, its terrible when things this like this happen at any time however being so close to having a baby would be awful. Im so sorry you are going through this. Massive hugs.

    Sent from my GT-I9300 using The Bub Hub mobile app

  2. The Following User Says Thank You to DizzyDaisy For This Useful Post:

    KaraB  (09-11-2014)

  3. #32
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    718
    Thanks
    1,642
    Thanked
    378
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Oh dear, I'm so sorry to hear what your going through OP, you must feel emotionally sick. I know I would (I've been through this before, but I was 19, not married with kids!).
    Even if he isn't physically doing anything wrong, emotionally he is, if he has nothing to hide, he wouldn't be hiding things from you, taking "trips" to the shops to call or meet up with someone. Clearly he knows its a boundary he shouldn't cross & it would upset you, otherwise he wouldn't be texting/calling/meeting up without you knowing. I get the feeling by talking to you about this other woman he knows, he feels like hes validating the friendship. But if that's the case, why cant he just say "I''m catching up with Y for a coffee, is that ok?" or something similar if he has nothing to hide from you. I have nothing against males & females being friends when one or both are in a relationship/married, but there shouldn't be sneaking/hiding/being sheepful if its strictly plutanic. Thats when people look & act guilty of something (even if they in fact aren't doing anything, it looks bad on their behalf).

  4. #33
    Join Date
    Oct 2014
    Posts
    190
    Thanks
    201
    Thanked
    64
    Reviews
    0
    You need to look after your mental well being for now you have an impending birth to focus on . I would play really loudly close your eyes and dance your butt of you need a realease! Katy perri - dark horse and Iggy azalea - black widow for some motivation and focus. it will empower you for a focused calm birth experience that your entitle to before this guy ruins that for you too. Xx

  5. #34
    Join Date
    Feb 2012
    Location
    Brisbane North
    Posts
    4,460
    Thanks
    1,581
    Thanked
    1,802
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    oh op what a dog he is. and what a crappy time for you with the birth and all. what about leaving your son with a neighbour? if you don't want to go back to ur mum then don't..

  6. #35
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Location
    South East QLD
    Posts
    4,034
    Thanks
    3,349
    Thanked
    1,623
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Oh hun, I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.

    I believe you have done the right thing. You deserve to be treated way better than this.

    Like other ladies have said, contact your hospital and ask to speak to a social worker. I had to speak to one while pregnant with ds2 (we'll just say my mum sucks as well!) and she was awesome. Just having someone removed from the situation who I could talk to was so very helpful.

    I wish I was closer, I would help you out in a heartbeat.

    Big hugs. Take a deep breath. You'll have support here. x

    Sent from my GT-I9100T using The Bub Hub mobile app

  7. #36
    Join Date
    Sep 2010
    Posts
    2,875
    Thanks
    349
    Thanked
    1,434
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Op I am sorry you are having to deal with this after the stress from your in laws, your neighbour and your mother. I think even if he hasn't had a physical affair with this women he might be close to having or had a emotional affair with this women and that is just as bad in my opinion. I agree turn your phone off, just focus on you and your children

  8. The Following User Says Thank You to loodle For This Useful Post:

    Mama Mirabelle  (07-11-2014)

  9. #37
    Join Date
    Apr 2014
    Location
    Roleystone
    Posts
    1,710
    Thanks
    2,383
    Thanked
    1,900
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by Serenity Love View Post
    He is now texting me telling me how unfair it is that he has been misunderstood and the woman is offering to talk to me to let me know that they didn't plan on sleeping with each other!!

    He told me his morning he ended it with her and now he's still talking to her and trying to guilt trip me and push me into a corner. F*cking dog he is. Who the hell have i married!!! Why does he need to do this now when I am about to go into fricken labor. I have told him i wont let him near our son and the baby until he has gone to see a psychologist.
    That makes me so angry for you! I hate when someone has done something terrible and instead of admitting they're in the wrong and doing everything they possibly can to beg for your forgiveness (not that I'm saying I would forgive him!) they try and turn the blame around on to you. Not at all ok.

    He has not been misunderstood. He has been caught out, lying to his pregnant wife about having inappropriate contact with another woman. The fact that he clearly thinks what he was doing is ok (even after you pointed out that it concerned you) rings huge alarm bells for me. Making excuses to leave the house so he could call her?? Wow.

    I'm sorry you've been through so much lately, it really sucks

  10. The Following User Says Thank You to HillDweller For This Useful Post:

    BettyW  (07-11-2014)

  11. #38
    SuperGranny's Avatar
    SuperGranny is offline Worlds best grandma! Winner 2012 - Most Helpful Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    sunshine coast qld
    Posts
    6,140
    Thanks
    4,541
    Thanked
    2,719
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    I wish I could help. there is nothing to say about him, or this woman. nothing at all. take care of yourself. turn your phone off, go see a social worker or whatever for the safe and calm birth of your precious baby. focus on your needs and your child and bub to come. look towards your future and walk away from your past. you are worthy of love and devotion, and please don't spend anytime with people who don't value you. hugs, Marie.

  12. The Following User Says Thank You to SuperGranny For This Useful Post:

    Mama Mirabelle  (07-11-2014)

  13. #39
    Zombie_eyes's Avatar
    Zombie_eyes is offline Formerly Diamondeyes
    Winner 2012 - Biggest Computer Nerd
    Winner 2013/14 - Funniest Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Posts
    9,354
    Thanks
    2,835
    Thanked
    9,033
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Awards:
    100 Posts in a week
    Hugs* what a dirt bag.

  14. #40
    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    Location
    Gold Coast
    Posts
    283
    Thanks
    16
    Thanked
    118
    Reviews
    0
    I really want to kick him in the nuts on your behalf.


 

Similar Threads

  1. Not being called out for such behavior is just as bad...
    By RuffledPansy in forum General Chat
    Replies: 19
    Last Post: 26-08-2014, 13:58
  2. 4yo behavior
    By misho in forum General Parenting Tips, Advice & Chat
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 16-01-2014, 19:08

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

reviews
learn how you can become a reviewer!

competitions

forum - chatting now
christmas gift guidesee all Red Stocking
Springfree Trampoline
Give the Ultimate Christmas Gift Springfree Trampoline
The World's Safest Trampoline™ is now also the world's first Smart Trampoline™. Sensors on the mat detect your every move and your jumps control fun, educational and active games on tablet. Secure the Ultimate Christmas Gift today!
sales & new stuffsee all
Pea Pods
Buy 2 Award Winning Pea Pods Reusable One Size Nappies for only $38 (in your choice of colours) and receive a FREE roll of Bamboo Liners. Don't miss out, we don't usually have discounts on the nappies, so grab this special offer!
Special Offer! Save $12
featured supporter
henry and grace
Summer Cool. We are the only brand in the world to use ultrafine Merino wool to produce the finest, softest & most luxurious garments whilst keeping mum and bub cool and dry. Wear them multiple times before machine washing-hard to believe, but true.
gotcha
X

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!