I'm a horrible host! I feed my guests, provide clean bedding and towels but don't go out of my way change my day around for them! I just go on business as usual and if they offer to help great, if they don't well that's annoying but I'm happy to ignore them until in done doing things! It's always hubby's family who stay so that probably makes a difference to how much of a hassle I feel they are.
If it were my family staying id probably expect more because I would feel
Comfortable asking them to do things!