DH and I both work full time and have 6 kids.
DS16y, DS13y, DS12+DS12, DS10 and DD9.
We were out for our anniversary the end of February when, with a few drinks under my belt, I said I always thought we'd have one more. DH, completely sober as he doesn't drink, floored me when he said he always wanted another one after our DD was born.
I had been feeling I wanted another one for the past 7years and although I mentioned it jokingly, I really wanted another.
Already having 6 kids, working full time and having studied for a few years meant I was so busy with life that I didn't realise how quick the time had gone.
If DH had said no, I would of been upset.
I love him too much to resent him. I love my "now" family too much to miss what I don't have.
If you are yearning for that next baby and you don't get to have it, it will cause more issues. If you convince your DH to have another baby and he really doesn't want one, it will cause more issues.
I have no golden answer.
FWIW, we are TTC#7 😁