Saw this in the Age today:http://www.dailylife.com.au/life-and...201-3llg2.html Cannot believe this woman.... if my husband said anything to our son along the lines of "awww, and mummy says she doesn't want any more but look how much he loves you" as an attempt to "persuade" me I would be so hurt and angry. Its a tough one, but from the sounds of it her husband is not going to change her mind so she has a choice to make. She has said she would not divorce him to give her a child a half-sibling (good decision in my view!) so may have to come to terms with an only child. It would be hard of course, but its not like he said he would have two and then changed his mind. That would be a lot worse (in my view - and I say that as someone who did exactly that to my husband).