Thank you all so much for your honesty and for sharing with me!
I am definitely keeping up with kegel exercises - I wasn't aware that weak pelvic floor came from pregnancy and not birth so I've learnt something new!
I am feeling that perhaps CS is the way to go, simply due to the idea that I cannot guarantee that a vaginal birth will go smoothly/not cause issues or trauma. I don't have much of an issue with the catheter, (in fact I actually feel a bit of relief knowing that I'll have that in) I suppose the only real worries I now have regarding CS is that I will most likely have to use laxatives/stool softeners, which scare the hell out of me!
But again, thank you all so very much. Your responses have been incredibly helpful and supportive, moreso than the people I've discussed this with in person (Often get met with- "are you kidding? You'd rather have a CS? That's not really giving birth/it's silly/vain/you'll regret it") It's astounding that some of my family and friends choose to judge me for this decision however a bunch of strangers on the internet can be so lovely! At the end of the day I just want my baby to be healthy and born safely, but I do have to consider my health (especially mental health) as well.