Thanks @AMC14 . Im sorry about your friend. Mine was a 20 plus yr friendship too. It has been pretty much one sided since july and now she has just has totally blocked me out without reason. She is my sons god mother for heaven sake. I know she is not happy with her own life but wont accept help and support to make it easier either and she is just so negative and draining a always making snide comments about my life. Ive tried everything but I guess I am done now being her door mat. I dont deserve it and neither do you.