Sorry for lack of personals as I'm on my phone and struggling with app
Myheart, great beta!
Chillout, also only weeks off 44th birthday, welcome! Girls have given great advice, neutral place to chat through feelings/pro/cons will be good for hubby, everyone processes differently. It took us 7 OE cycles, miscarriage and finally hubby and I could move on and the best decision of our lives. Looking back now I wish I'd done it sooner, hindsight - but you need to process in your own time and have no "I wish... ' when looking back.
Thinking of everyone at every stage may 2015 be a year of dreams coming true.
We ended up getting an extra surprise as our little fellas decided they didn't want to wait for 2015 and miss the party!
My waters broke Christmas night/Boxing Day morning. Rushed to hospital and they tried stopping contractions but nothing was stopping our little man.
Baby A was breeched and B transverse so booked for 4:30pm c section though I ended up being rushed for emergency as baby A's chord was protruding at 4pm when they came to check dilation. I was rushed to operating room and poor Hubby had to sit and wait for an hour before knowing what was going on.
Thankfully at 4:16 baby A - Charlie Allan... 1.73kg 43cm joined us followed 2mins later by his brother, Joshua Crosby... 1.89kg 45cm long. Both were rushed to intensive care and are doing well. Charlie came off oxygen on Friday and Josh came off Saturday. They are tiny but perfect and hopefully will only be in hospital for a few weeks. I'm doing ok and just can't believe our little miracles are here, feels so surreal. xx