I am in a long distance relationship. We have known eachother since beginning of June. Decided to give things a go early September. I fly down every 4wks its worked out to be. I enjoy my time away. Usually my dad or nana will watch kiddo between them. I always make sure they have everything they will require plus more including money.
Dad is chucking the crappa coz he wont come to visit me. There are reasons for that. I dont want him to meet kiddo(7yrs) yet. Wanted to wait a lil longer. I also didnt want him to meet my dad yet either. Was willing for them all to meet new years. Plus i have enjoyed going away for a break every few weeks as i have really needed it.
I am taking kiddo down to Sydney in about 5 or 6wks time as kiddo really wants to go down soon. Have spoken with my boyfriend about bringing kiddo down and we are gonna organise a fantastic weekend down there when i take him down(night in the city, beaches etc). Will be a weekend to remember but just a fair bit of planning as BF will need time off work as he is now working on weekends. So kiddo will meet him before i originally intended on it happening.
My dad is chucking a huge wobbley over it all. He doesnt understand why i am making him wait before he flys up to see me.
Long distance is bloody hard and i am struggling with the distance but he plans on moving up to Brisbane in the first half of next year which is all good by me. Its just easier if he moves instead of me(perm job, kiddo in school where he is just casual at work and no other committments keeping him in Sydney)
I just want dad to be happy for me. Well actually i want everyone to be happy for me.
I am heading back this weekend as an opportunity arose and i took the chance to go back down(friday arvo til sometime sunday night when we get back as driving back with a friend and her friends). Dad and his partner are gonna watch kiddo for me.
Dads gf kinda gets where i am coming from. She doesnt quite understand why i am making them all wait to meet him but its just how i want to do things. I called her coz dad just stormed off in one of his 2yr old tantrum modes. Why would i want my bf to meet my dad if he acts like that?
I just want family and friends to be happy. Literally most of my friends just warn me about different things with my relationship, literally nobody is genuinely happy for me like i wish they would be. Listening to them and then listening to my dad, i am a lil over it and sometimes wish i could just pack up and move to be closer with my bf.
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