This Christmas we are due to spend it with my parents (last year Christmas Day was with my ILs). Anyway, dad and I made loose plans a few weeks ago about what we were doing for the day.
This week mum tells me dad wants to spend Christmas Day with a family "uncle" who doesn't like me. So we are uninvited. My dad hasn't officially told me, mum just wanted to warn me.
The reason dad wants to spend the day with this friend is because he will be all alone on Christmas Day and he is old (80's) and 'every Christmas might be his last'. (He's not ill or anything).
How would you feel about this?