So my DH is one of those 'what have you done all day?" kind of men who thinks I'm having a lovely holiday "not going to work" looking after our almost 1 yr old, keeping house, doing the accounts for his business and generally acting like his PA.
He does ZERO chores around the house and "plays" with DD for approx 30-60 mins/day when it suits him (he doesn't feed her, bath her, read to her, put her to bed, resettle overnight-- nothing).
My mum thinks I should "take a day off"
one Saturday and leave him with DD for the day (bf her before I leave and in the evening when I get back- means she will miss a bf or two) so he can see how hard it actually is and what is actually done in a day.
DD cannot be consoled by him, so I'm quite reluctant to give her a sh*tty day to teach him a lesson but am so sick of his attitude I'm tempted....