Well yea good news and not what I expected at all!!!
We went to our appt yesterday with a plan in mind to try and demand an induction due to my anxiety etc.
the first time out of all my appts I actually had a really nice midwife that took my mental health seriously. Instead of my appt taking 5 mins it took half an hr.
She did a s&s and my cervix was 2cm dilated and soft, she could touch the baby's head whist doing it. She talked me out of the induction as she said it looks like my body is doing all the right things and may go into labour on it's own. I get foetal monitoring on Friday and mon morning before my next appt.
She also said I can come in everyday for foetal monitoring if that reassured me. She told me that my anxiety may not be helping labour to progress so I need to spend the wk talking positively to my baby and relaxing and daily baths etc, she even suggested a sherry before bed (might not do that one) .
I feel happy that she has taken me seriously and for once I've actually been booked in to see the same midwife for my next appt.
Thankyou all for helping to reassure me or commenting your experiences or opinions. Pregnancy is a scary time.