I am 40 +3 although the hosp is still insisting im 39+3 days. I had no period before I conceived so my due date is off my first dating scan which gave the due date of 27th of oct. I bled a few days after that scan and had another scan which said the 20th of oct and I've had 5 other scans since then which all say the same date of 20th. They still refuse to change my due date.
I was hoping for a s&s at my appt on tues and they just fobbed me off and even refused an internal. I cried to the midwife and said I'm absolutely paranoid my baby will be stillborn, I'm struggling to eat and sleep coz it's all I worry about. They said they will only consider induction at 40+10 but in my opinion I'll be bloody 41+10 days that's way to over due and the risks of stillbirth that far overdue is huge!
I'm just so scared and anxious and I feel like no one is listening to me. I just want this baby out so I can see he is safe and healthy. He is full term at this stage and he is expected to be over 10 pound at birth so I'm not sure why they r also making me wait.
I'm freaking out!!!
We also have my step sons bday coming up in 2 weeks and I can only imagine the trouble it'll cause if my baby is due around his bday. We struggle to see him as it is without this happening.