So I'm curious to know what others would do...
Received an invite from SIL to our nephew's first birthday party
It's at a park over an hour drive away
No food or drink is provided
It's smack bang in the middle of dd's midday nap time (her only nap)
No other family will be there (ILs are on holiday)
We really really dislike the other people going- SILs friends and their kids (SIL knows we do not like her friends)
This is the only day during the week DH and I have together as I'm working the next day
We had an excuse so she offered to change it to a date that suited us
Would you suck it up and go?
Or tell SIL that you really don't want to go but offer to catch up privately?