I'm 34 weeks pregnant. I dated a guy for 3 months and fell pregnant. He was abusive of me and I left him months ago. I have since got a DVO against him. I am not putting him on the BC as I don't want to make it easy for him to get visitation. My daughter will know who he is, I just believe he doesn't care and just thinks it's a big fun game to look cool with his mates. However in order to make it difficult I will need to lie and say I don't know who he is so he will have to pay for a paternity test and then start proceedings. I just want to know what I'm getting myself into before I dive into this mess.