It's tricky to get the balance of fun dtd and actually wanting to nail it and get the little eggy fertilised hahha. I think dh knows all to well when it's coming up to my O time! We don't have much energy to do it spontaneously these days outside of the fertile window (bit sad)! But dh works shift work too, so I know about fitting it around then also.
Hugs ladies! This baby making is a business indeed
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DH starts at 3.30am knocks off work at 2.30pm goes home and sleeps and then is refreshed to dtd later before bed. Plus we have an agreement that up until I O we just dtd for baby making (I don't have to 'enjoy' it iykwim) but then after that we go back to having fun BD'ing.
At a wedding. I think everyone here is UTD. Is it ok to drink during tww?
@Sally1981 Yeah he's seeing someone. Thanks
I can never make my mind up about drinking during the 2ww! I asked my doctor and she said she's happy as long as I'm not binging or having more than 2 units, and not every night. But to stop altogether if I get utd. Seems contradictory to me.
I don't think its a huge deal to have a few drinks in the tww, as long as it isn't excessive. I had a few drinks before i found out... lol I did notice they tasted different but didn't think anything of it at the time.
Last time I was pregnant doctor said there's a six week grace period. However, considering I mc that pregnancy I might stick to one glass.
It's interesting isn't it. The TWW...because you might not be utd and then if you avoid drinking altogether at a social function it may be for no need. I would just stick to under 3 drinks over a space of a night. Thankfully I haven't had that need yet. But next month there will be!
Can I join you ladies in this thread? I have hesitated joining in the past as I obsess over all this TTC stuff way too much as it is, but having some extra support and distraction might be nice.
I'm 31 and we have one son (2.5yo). We fell pregnant easily with twins in June this year, only to MC at 9 weeks. I've had two normal cycles since MC, and despite actively TTC, no luck yet. I know that's totally normal, but after falling preg first cycle in the past, having the ups and downs of TTC is hard to take. Also, I've been told that fertility is sky high post D&C but not in our case
Anyway, let's hope Nov is the month for plenty of BFPs x
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