Could you get something like these along the tops of your fences?
I am not sure if you have done this already, but I would be checking to see what your responsibilities are in this situation (i.e. could you be held responsible criminally or civily?) and then I would check the local rules with the council. If she isn't following them, then I would report her.
Fair enough - I am glad you know where you stand if the worst happens..
I would also be dropping into conversation with your neighbour that you have cameras in your yard
I'm sorry I don't have any advice, only sympathy because I know how scary these situations can be!
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